{"id":4662,"date":"2019-09-06T17:54:41","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T17:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/?p=4662"},"modified":"2020-09-01T17:59:46","modified_gmt":"2020-09-01T17:59:46","slug":"honoring-a-sons-legacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/honoring-a-sons-legacy\/","title":{"rendered":"Honoring A Son&#8217;s Legacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb_share_1\" style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a name=\"fb_share\" type=\"box_count\" share_url=\"https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/honoring-a-sons-legacy\/\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php\">Share<\/a><\/div><div><script src=\"http:\/\/static.ak.fbcdn.net\/connect.php\/js\/FB.Share\" type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/div><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-4663\" src=\"http:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/messina-family-at-hospice-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"272\" height=\"238\" srcset=\"https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/messina-family-at-hospice-1.jpg 503w, https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/messina-family-at-hospice-1-300x262.jpg 300w, https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/messina-family-at-hospice-1-344x300.jpg 344w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 272px) 100vw, 272px\" \/>One day in 2016, Jacqueline Messina received a phone call no mother wants to receive.\u00a0 Her son Anthony was in the ICU and she needed to come to Jamaica Hospital.<\/p>\n<p>When she arrived she\u00a0couldn\u2019t believe her eyes. Anthony was sedated and on a ventilator. He was not the 24-year-old boisterous young man she knew; he was unresponsive. While they hoped and prayed daily with Father Andre that he would wake up and return to his family after rehabilitation, the prognosis grew worse as the days past.\u00a0 His brain injuries were escalating versus improving.\u00a0 The hospital&#8217;s Palliative Care team came to visit her in the ICU and she completely went silent.\u00a0 Jacqueline had no idea what the words \u201cpalliative care\u201d even meant.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was an extremely difficult moment for our family. Who anticipates palliative and hospice care? We sat his brothers down and explained the next steps, but in our hearts, we were still confused about how his life was ending, a parent never imagines this.\u201d One additional factor was Anthony\u2019s grandmother.\u00a0 \u201cThey were so close and she was diagnosed with breast cancer the day of his accident,\u201d shared Jacqueline.\u00a0 \u201cI remember us trying to be strong for her despite my heart breaking because I was worried about how losing Anthony would affect her health and upcoming treatment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am not sure we could have endured this experience on our own. Thankfully we had the support of everyone on Jamaica Hospital\u2019s hospice unit. They did so much to help my husband and boys as well as Anthony\u2019s grandmother. They made sure the rest of our family and friends were well cared for,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Hours before his passing, Anthony was admitted to Jamaica Hospital\u2019s Ferrara Family Center for Hospice Care after being transferred from the ICU. \u00a0Jacqueline did not know what to expect, \u00a0\u00a0\u201cI was anxious at first.\u00a0 I must have asked a million questions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jacqueline\u2019s anxieties subsided when she was greeted by a warm staff that addressed her concerns and treated her with compassion. They ensured her that Anthony was in good hands and they would do everything they could to make him comfortable. \u201cThe level of service we received was outstanding. The staff did more than what was needed during his time with us and after. They were amazing,\u201d said Jacqueline.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4664\" style=\"width: 250px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4664\" class=\" wp-image-4664\" src=\"http:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/jacqueline-messina.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/jacqueline-messina.jpg 726w, https:\/\/medisyshealth.org\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/jacqueline-messina-294x300.jpg 294w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4664\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jacqueline Messina<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The staff\u2019s devotion to Anthony and his family inspired Jacqueline to give back. She donates to the hospice every year in honor of her son\u2019s legacy.\u00a0 \u201cWhen Anthony died, I wanted to make sure others had the same comfort that he did.\u00a0 This is why I work hard every year to accumulate volunteer hours of which my company Bloomberg L.P. \u00a0converts into funds for charity. \u00a0The program is called \u201cDollars for Your Hours\u201d and I proudly support the Ferrara Family Center for Hospice Care with this gift,\u201d shared Jacqueline.<\/p>\n<p>The Ferrara Family for Hospice Care provides comfort care for those with life-limiting illnesses. Great pride is taken by their staff in providing patients and families with quality medical services as well as the emotional and spiritual support needed to help them through a challenging time.<\/p>\n<p>To donate to the Ferrara Family Center for Hospice Care, please visit <a href=\"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/ways-to-give\/\">https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/ways-to-give\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ShareOne day in 2016, Jacqueline Messina received a phone call no mother wants to receive.\u00a0 Her son Anthony was in the ICU and she needed to come to Jamaica Hospital. When she arrived she\u00a0couldn\u2019t believe her eyes. 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